Self esteem is a critical part of our lives. It’s what tells us who we are, how valuable we are, and how deserving we are of good things. When our self esteem is low, it can be difficult to do anything productive or feel good about ourselves.
Music can make coping with low self esteem easier. It can be a form of expression, helping us to understand and articulate our feelings. If you’re struggling with low self esteem, these songs can help. Here are 20 songs about low self esteem.
Contents
- 1. “I’m a Loser” by The Beatles
- 2. “Rock Bottom” by Eminem
- 3. “Self-Esteem” by The Offspring
- 4. “New Dawn Fades” by Joy Division
- 5. “No Future” by Sex Pistols
- 6. “Low Self Opinion” by Rollins Band
- 7. “Where is my Mind” by Pixies
- 8. “Heroin” by Velvet Underground
- 9. “Unpretty” by TLC
- 10. “Creep” by Radiohead
- 11. “If I’m Insecure” by James Blake
- 12. “She’s Got Issues” by The Offspring
- 13. “Cut My Hair” by The Who
- 14. “How Soon Is Now?” by The Smiths
- 15. “I Suck” by Mark Ronson feat. Rivers Cuomo
- 16. “Loser” by Beck
- 17. “Stressed Out” by Twenty One Pilots
- 18. “Bret, You’ve Got It Going On” by Flight of the Conchords
- 19. “She Hates Me” by Puddle Of Mudd
- 20. “Cry Pretty” by Carrie Underwood
- Final Thoughts
1. “I’m a Loser” by The Beatles
The first song on the list is “I’m a Loser” by The Beatles. This song is about feeling like you’re not good enough.
The lyrics talk about how the speaker feels like they’re always messing up and they’re not sure why they even try anymore. If you’ve been feeling like a loser lately, this song can definitely resonate with you.
2. “Rock Bottom” by Eminem
Eminem is a rap god and he definitely knows how to make a hit song. “Rock Bottom” is about feeling like you’ve hit rock bottom in your life.
The lyrics talk about how the speaker feels like they’re at their lowest point and they don’t see a way out. It was released in 1999 as part of the The Slim Shady LP album.
3. “Self-Esteem” by The Offspring
Next on the list is “Self Esteem” by The Offspring. This song is all about having low self esteem and how it can impact your life.
They also talk about how this one person will always end up alone. This song was released in 1994 as part of the album Smash.
4. “New Dawn Fades” by Joy Division
Joy Division is a British post-punk band that was popular in the late 1970s and early 1980s. “New Dawn Fades” is about feeling lost and alone.
The lyrics talk about how the speaker is struggling to find their way and they feel like they’re fading away. You can find it on their Unknown Pleasures album.
5. “No Future” by Sex Pistols
Next on the list is a punk classic. The Sex Pistols were one of the most influential bands of their time, and “No Future” is a song that speaks to the hopelessness that many people feel.
It’s a song about not being able to see a way out, and it’s something that anyone with low self-esteem can relate to.
6. “Low Self Opinion” by Rollins Band
This next song is from the Rollins Band, and it’s called “Low Self Opinion.” This is a song about how our opinions of ourselves can be so low that we can’t see our own worth.
It was released in 1992 as part of their The End of Silence album which can be streamed on all music platforms out there.
7. “Where is my Mind” by Pixies
Pixies is a popular alternative band, and “Where is my Mind” is about how we can sometimes feel like our minds are elsewhere. It’s a song about being lost in our own thoughts and not being able to focus on anything else. You can find it on the Surfer Rosa album released in 1988.
8. “Heroin” by Velvet Underground
“Heroin” is a song by the Velvet Underground that is about addiction and how it can take over our lives. It’s a dark song, but it’s one that many people with low self-esteem can relate to. If you’re struggling with addiction, this is a song that will speak to you.
9. “Unpretty” by TLC
The next song is about how we can be our own worst enemies when it comes to our self-esteem. “Unpretty” by TLC is a song about how we can be so critical of ourselves that we don’t see our own beauty. It’s a powerful song with an important message, and it’s one that everyone should hear.
10. “Creep” by Radiohead
Radiohead is a popular band, and “Creep” is one of their most well-known songs. It’s a song about feeling like an outsider and not being good enough. If you’ve ever felt like you don’t belong, let this song speak to you. It was released in 1992 as part of the album Pablo Honey.
11. “If I’m Insecure” by James Blake
Next on the list is “If I’m Insecure” by James Blake. This is a song about how our insecurities can hold us back from living our best lives. It was released in 2021 as part of the Friends That Break Your Heart album which can be streamed on all music platforms out there.
12. “She’s Got Issues” by The Offspring
From the album Americana, “She’s Got Issues” is a song about how we can all have our fair share of problems. It’s a song about how nobody is perfect, and we should all accept that fact. If you’re struggling with your self-esteem, this is a song that you need to hear.
13. “Cut My Hair” by The Who
The Who is a popular band, and “Cut My Hair” is a song about how we can feel like we’re not good enough. It’s a song about how our hair can be a symbol of our self-esteem.
If you’re struggling with your self-image, listening to this song might help you feel better. It was released in 1973 as part of the Quadrophenia (Remixed And Remastered Version) album.
14. “How Soon Is Now?” by The Smiths
This next song is from The Smiths, and it’s called “How Soon Is Now?” This tune is all about self-doubt and the lyrics talk about how the speaker feels invisible and worthless, like they’ll never be good enough for anyone. If you’ve ever felt this way, then this song is for you.
15. “I Suck” by Mark Ronson feat. Rivers Cuomo
Up next is a song called “I Suck” by Mark Ronson featuring Rivers Cuomo. As you can probably guess from the title, this song is about feeling like you’re not good enough and it’s just a big ol’ self-esteem anthem. If you need a pick-me-up, give this one a listen.
16. “Loser” by Beck
Beck’s “Loser” is another song about feeling like an outsider and not being good enough. The lyrics talk about how the speaker feels like they don’t belong anywhere and they’re just a “loser.” This song is perfect for anyone who’s ever felt like an outcast.
17. “Stressed Out” by Twenty One Pilots
Up next is “Stressed Out” by Twenty One Pilots. This song is all about the pressure that comes with growing up and feeling like you have to meet everyone’s expectations.
We’ve all wanted to turn back time at one point or another and this song captures that longing perfectly. It’s probably the band’s most popular song and for good reason, it’s relatable as heck.
18. “Bret, You’ve Got It Going On” by Flight of the Conchords
This next song was featured in the TV Series, Flight of the Conchords. It’s sung by Bret to his bandmate, Jemaine and it’s all about how great Bret thinks Jemaine is.
Even though Bret is trying to boost Jemaine’s self-esteem, the song is actually pretty funny because Bret doesn’t have much going for himself. If you need a good laugh, check this one out.
19. “She Hates Me” by Puddle Of Mudd
Puddle of Mudd’s “She Hates Me” is a song about a guy who is trying to figure out why his girlfriend left him. He comes to the conclusion that it’s because she must think he’s a loser. This song is perfect for anyone who has ever been dumped and felt like they didn’t deserve it.
20. “Cry Pretty” by Carrie Underwood
Wrapping up the list is “Cry Pretty” by Carrie Underwood. This song is all about being vulnerable and feeling like you’re not good enough.
The lyrics talk about how the speaker feels like they’re not worthy of love and they’re just trying to hold it together. You can find it on her album of the same title.
Final Thoughts
These are only a few of the songs that discuss low self-esteem. If you’re struggling with self-confidence, know that you’re not alone. There are plenty of other people who feel the same way. And, through music, they’ve been able to share their stories and feelings.
